If There Was An Award For “Worst Brides Ever,” These 20 Bridezillas Would Definitely Win It

About a year ago my friend H asked me to be her bridesmaid. At that point I had been friends with H for a few good years – we met at work and stayed close even after we both left that place.

So naturally when she asked me to be her bridesmaid I was happy, teared a little but also became anxious a bit. The anxiety came mostly from the fact that I would be one out of only two bridesmaids and from not being sure exactly what H expected from me. And the other bridesmaids, let’s call her L, was H’s childhood friend. In fact, her together with the 3 groomsmen, bride and groom are all friends since childhood and very tight in their community and culture (which I am an outsider of). So, a kind of dynamic formed from the start. I will try to list here everything that transpired:

first meeting was with the whole group where logistics were discussed. I tried to participate, offer ideas, be proactive, but the “meeting” started with a three hour talk about their shared passion for Pokemon before we got to the wedding stuff and by that time I was tired and hungry, but still I stayed about 1.5 h then left.

second meeting I missed because of having an exam. I apologised and bride and I met for coffee and she updated me

third meeting took place online. Again, it felt like no one wanted to discuss things related to the wedding. As much as I tried to fit with the topics I never knew the people they mentioned, their hobbies. Heck, they even had a nickname for the groom I was not aware of and spent a long time trying to figure who this person was. The meeting extended until midnight and the wedding talk started around 11 pm in the evening on a work week. I had to excuse myself by then and log off. Halfway through the process, I found out they were all in a discord group and planning a lot on the side, I had no idea…

while all this was happening me and L were planning the bridal shower but we just simply couldn’t agree. We said we will do spa, she wanted to go to a hundread dollar one with a stay overnight in a fancy hotel. I agreed, but that was not enough. She wanted to add a pottery class, a treasure hunt and a set of bridal accessories to the bill. We would end up each paying almost 900 dollars, which my budget couldn’t take. She ended up going behind my back and telling the bride how terrible I was. In the end we left the spa out and did everything else.

before the wedding I asked the bride if after the ceremony could I spend some time with my partner who did not know anyone at the party. She was upset. Apparently the expectation was that we spend the whole day helping to set up the tables, serve drinks to the guests, arrange flowers and care for the bride and groom. I did not know that is the norm, but it was starting to feel like we were all unpaid help and not friends and also guests at the wedding. I tried to help to my best ability, showed up early, did what she asked but I also took breaks after the ceremony ended to be with my partner, which I guess still upset the group.

After all was done, H stopped talking to me and today I saw that I got cut out of all the wedding photos she posted online. It hurt. I know I could have been better and fit better with the group, but I also wished we would have discussed what happened and try to save the friendship, but apparently that is it.

So all that being said, I am just curios what people think. Was I a lousy friend, was there the lack of chemistry with the group, could the bride have been nicer? Would love to know.

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Bowral Getaway – PLAYWORKEATREPEAT

Bowral, what a beautiful country town!

This was my very first time visiting, and now I’d completely love to live there. Well, maybe not all the time, but it would be amazing to have a place of my own for a getaway. All I need is a few spare million dollars, and my dream will come true. No problemo. 😉

We spent a night in Bowral over the recent spring break. And we loved it so much that we’ve already booked another trip for the first week of the summer holidays!

Before I share the three million photos I took, here’s a little info about Bowral. It’s a country town in the Southern Highlands of New South Wales, about 90 minutes south of Sydney. It’s known for its gardens, little boutiques and lovely old buildings, and it’s especially popular in spring when the tulips are in bloom.

Getting To Bowral

We decided to get there by train instead of driving, and it was the best decision ever. I am not the calmest passenger, and I knew if we drove, I would be truly exhausted from slamming on those invisible passenger-seat brakes to avoid all the imaginary collisions on the highway. Also, there are only so many times you can say, “Oh, I was just stretching my leg, I got a cramp!” or “Ouch, what was that itch?” before your husband catches on that you’re up to passenger-seat panic attack #47. Taking the train meant we both arrived completely relaxed and stayed married.

We caught an early train from Allawah, changing at Wolli Creek and Campbelltown along the way. It wasn’t long before we were enjoying beautiful views like this. Cloudy, but still lovely!

By the time we pulled into Bowral, the clouds had started to clear, and we could see some beautiful blue skies. Gosh, they’re not kidding when they say fresh country air! It sure was crisp and clean.

Bowral train station sign

First stop, coffee at The Press Shop, which came with a chocolate bullet. I gave mine to Steve, as liquorice is an acquired taste I’m yet to acquire. 

coffee

There were so many shops to explore. We spent a good while wandering around Dirty Janes (funny name) and some other fantastic vintage and antique shops. I love places like these, and they reminded me of one of my favourite spots in Sydney, Mitchell Road Antiques. You could spend hours browsing all the treasures.

Dirty Janes antique market in Bowral

Dirty Janes antique market

Antiques and vintage finds inside a shop in Bowral

There were some lovely fashion boutiques too, and I found a Ulla Johnson top I’d admired on Instagram. Then I saw the $1,400 price tag. Haha, moving right along.

Antiques and vintage finds inside a shop in Bowral Antiques and vintage finds inside a shop in Bowral Ulla Johnson top spotted while shopping in Bowral

We were starving, so we stopped off at the famous Gumnut Patisserie for a chicken, mushroom and leek pie for me. Steve was craving a sausage roll, so he got one from Sonoma, which was nearby the pie shop. We ate on the go, so no photos.

We spent the rest of our time wandering in and out of the little streets and laneways.

Shopping laneway with boutiques

By the afternoon, it was time to check into our hotel, which was roughly a ten-minute walk from the town centre.

Berida Hotel

I’d seen some photos of the Berida hotel when I booked it, and it looked beautiful. But it was even better in person. It’s a gorgeous heritage building that dates back to 1925, when it was originally built as a family home. The best way to describe it is luxurious. Everything felt so elegant, and it was such a treat to stay there.

Berida Hotel sign

Berida Hotel

Fountain at Berida Hotel

Entrance to Berida Hotel in Bowral

There were so many rooms around the hotel where you could sit and enjoy. There’s also a bar we didn’t get to visit this time, so that’s definitely on our list for next time.

Bar lounge area inside Berida Hotel

Bar lounge area inside Berida Hotel

Lounge area inside Berida Hotel

And this was our room!

Our room at Berida Hotel

That night, we walked over to The Bowral Hotel for dinner. I loved that everything was within walking distance, such a bonus! We had some wine and the usual pub fare, chicken schnitzel and chips, followed by bread and butter pudding for dessert. Yum!

glass of wine

Chicken schnitzel and chips for dinner in Bowral

Bread and butter pudding dessert in Bowral

It was trivia night, so we decided to join in, and it was such a hoot! I remember us both saying, ‘As long as we don’t come last!’ Ahem. Don’t ask where we actually finished.

A Movie at the Empire Cinema

The next day, we decided to see Shaun the Sheep: The Beast of Mossy Bottom at the Empire Cinema. Interestingly, this cinema is the oldest continuously operating cinema on mainland Australia. A bit of history with our movie.

Entrance to the historic Empire Cinema in Bowral

Inside Empire cinema

Shaun the Sheep was so much fun, and I didn’t fall asleep once!

Lunch at Harry’s on Green Lane

After the movie, we went to Harry’s on Green Lane for lunch, and oh my goodness, it was SO good! The restaurant is named after Sir Harry Veitch, a British horticulturist who sent plant hunters around the world in search of exotic plants. That explains all the greenery, vintage botanical prints, old books and travel memorabilia. I loved looking around at all the little details. There was so much to see, and it was beautifully done. I wish my plants would grow like that all the way up the wall.

Harry’s on Green Lane menu in Bowral

Plants, botanical prints and dining tables inside Harry’s on Green Lane

Bookcase and vintage decor inside Harry’s on Green Lane

Beyond the incredible atmosphere, the food was absolutely delicious.

Salmon dish at Harry’s on Green Lane

Chicken dish at Harry’s on Green Lane

Crème brûlée dessert at Harry’s on Green Lane

Cheese plate at Harry’s on Green Lane

The Potting Shed

We finished our Bowral getaway with a visit to The Potting Shed, where spring colour was everywhere!

The Potting Shed garden shop

Tulips at The Potting Shed in Bowral

plants

pink tulips

pink flowering plant

We caught the 4 pm train and were back home around 6. I loved Bowral! One night was definitely not enough, so it’s a good thing we’ve already booked our next trip. Yay!

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68 Women Share The Most Insensitive Things Doctors Told Them During A Consultation

“I guess you must be serious, if you brought your husband with you.”

I was 8 months in to trying to figure out the cause of chronic pain that was getting progressively worse, and was being pretty much brushed off. This was the first time my husband went with me to an appointment, mostly just to drive me because I was in so much pain. Later we would find a tumor the size of a baseball in my abdomen ruining one of my kidneys.

MrsPie , Drazen Zigic Report

Female doctor comforting upset woman in medical office I was having an endometrial biopsy, first one. The old man doctor became irate with me because I let out a cry of pain. (I was in absolute agony). He looked at me with absolute disgust and said if I couldn’t control myself, I could get up and leave. I suffered in silence, shaking uncontrollably. He never said another word to me, but his nurse came in and hugged me. I will never know why, but he was soon after relieved of his job and I cheered that day.

That man HURT ME. Badly.

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Person measuring waist with tape measure focusing on abdominal fat “No, that medication does not cause weight gain. It’s your depression that’s causing you to eat more.” Said to me by *two doctors*.

Flash forward a year – my cat is sick. They give her an appetite stimulant.

**Appetite. Stimulant.**

Same med as the one “not” causing my excessive eating and weight gain.

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The stories on this list highlight a problem that many women face during their doctor’s visits. According to pain psychologist Dr. Samantha Meints, women are “viewed as hysterical,” which is why most of their health concerns are pathologized in a psychiatric way.

“Some of this is just due to social and cultural values,” Dr. Meints said in an interview with Harvard Health. “It’s a value for men to remain stoic in the face of pain or stress, while women are often more social and seek more support. The way they do that may be to share their difficult experiences, including pain.”

Doctor using stethoscope on young girl sitting with mother during checkup He told me I was pregnant infront my immigrant mother when I was only 13.

I WAS NOT. He didnt even test me or anything. I went in complaining of lower abdominal pain, and then it turned out I had blood in my bladder from an infection.

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Newborn baby resting on mother's chest in hospital setting “The reason you can’t push your baby out (after four hours of pushing) is because you chose an epidural”. Turns out he wouldn’t come out because he had a double knot in his cord and every time he breeched he was starved of oxygen. Was too late for a C-section and luckily the next doctor was competent and got him out safely in one push/contraction. I would have punched her in the face if I wasn’t preoccupied birthing a child. Also, the epidural was the best choice according to second doctor, as they had to cut me up to get babe out safely.

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Woman explaining stomach pain to doctor in consultation Regarding my terrible cramps and mental health issues that came on only when I have (or am about to have) my period: “it might get better if you have children”.

As if that completely baseless and unscientific wives-tale is justification for bringing a child into this world to *maybe* fix my PMDD??

I’ve had both male and female Drs suggest this to me. Unbelievable.

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There are also differences in pain thresholds between men and women. According to clinical psychologist Dr. Robert Jamison, women are perceived to have a higher pain tolerance, which may lead to the frequent dismissal of their conditions.

 “There’s always this sense that women can go through childbirth, so they can withstand much worse pain than men,” he said.

Young male doctor in white coat standing outside medical building Not necessarily what you were going for here, but one time I went to urgent care for a UTI and the hottest doctor I have ever seen in my life walked in and said, “Yeah, your urine is pretty dirty.”.

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Woman wearing graphic tee with edgy design and layered chains It was a psychiatrist who thought the band tshirt I was wearing was demonic and the reason for my anxiety. He prescribed me converting to his religion. When I gave him my email, and it was from my university he said “I thought only smart people went there”.

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Pregnant woman having ultrasound with doctor in medical examination room Oh my goodness. The worst was after I’d had a couple of miscarriages and was pregnant again, seeing a specialist and found out at my six week ultrasound that pregnancy wasn’t viable either, but the baby had a heartbeat, but it was slowing so they were sure I would lose it too.
The specialist doc I was seeing got us in her office and she started laying out the plan for trying again “after this one’s over.”
The complete and total lack of empathy for me as I was processing the loss of a third pregnancy was devastating. I was livid and speechless at the same time.
I never went back to see her again.
20+ years later I can still get upset about it.
I work in the medical field now and have always taken the time to let someone process the news when it’s bad. It’s just not that hard.

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Gender bias is one of the many ugly realities we deal with, and very unfortunately, it also happens in the medical field. Experts refer to this as “medical gaslighting,” and according to a 2024 study, it is more prevalent among women.

The study revealed that 45% of women who were going through genital pain were told they “just needed to relax more.” 39% were made to feel “crazy.”

Doctor comforting upset woman holding tissue in emotional medical appointment I told the doctor I was having pancreas pain as I’ve had pancreatitis a few times already and knew the symptoms and what it feels like. He said “listen dollface, there’s no way you can feel your pancreas you probably have a stomach ache.” I was indeed having a flare up.

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Doctor speaking with anxious young woman on couch during medical consultation Not a doctor but a psychiatrist. I was about 12 years old and I was seeing him for medication to treat severe anxiety. I was barely able to eat so I was at least 20 pounds underweight when I started going. We found a medication that worked and I finally started getting my weight back up. I was still skinny but finally in a healthy range

During one of my appointments, he told me that I needed to watch what I ate because I was starting to get fat. My mom was *livid.* We left the appointment early and never went back

I actually ran into him at the grocery store about 8 years ago. He recognized me and at least had the decency to look ashamed.

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Female doctor discussing treatment with patient in office Just got done nursing my first child and was ready to back on my ADHD medication. I was seeing a new primary care doctor since my old one retired. She asked me why I needed this medication and I told her my diagnosis should be in my medical chart. That apparently was not enough since she wanted details, when I explained my challenges she then said “how does your husband deal with you?”.

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Doctor talking to female patient in hospital room She said my feet hurt because I needed better shoes. A little over a year later I had surgery to break and reset a bone that had been broken years before and wasn’t treated so it healed wrong. If she had simply done an x-ray she would’ve seen that my first metatarsal was wrong.

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Woman stretching with trainer in outdoor fitness park When she told me the fix to my weight loss problems was ‘walking 10k steps a day’ and I showed her that I get 5 days a week of 13k+ she said “Is that your husband’s activity tracker?”.

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Woman consulting doctor during medical appointment in clinic A doctor told me that my pain in my lower abdomen was “probably just ovulation”, I knew he was wrong, went for a second opinion and was sent for an emergent CT. Ended up being appendicitis and was on the verge of rupture by the time the surgeon had me on the table.

Imagine assuming you know what ovulation pain feels like over the word of a woman who had been ovulating regularly for over a decade already at the time.

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Woman shaving legs with razor in bathroom wearing a white robe He jokingly-but-not-*really*-jokingly complained that I hadn’t shaved my legs before the appointment. He was a general practitioner, it was my first ever appointment with him, and the appointment was for a basic physical. I was 14.

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Woman consulting a male doctor in an office during medical appointment I suffer from cyclical vomiting syndrome. When my illness was at its worst I was in and out of the ER and was down to 94 pounds. For reference I’m 5”3 and my normal weight is around 115-120.

I went to a new GP to get bloodwork and was explaining my illness and she looks at me and says “well, so many women want to be skinny and pretty like you”

Like ma’am, I can’t even lift my own arm I’m so weak. Needless to say I never went back to her.

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Teen girl talking to doctor during medical appointment Telling my mom’s story:

In the late 90’s she had extreme fatigue, unexpected weight gain, and a few other symptoms. She had to drink caffeine nearly constantly just to function. She could sleep for 12+ hours if she didn’t have an alarm. She went to the doctor who told her, basically, that her sedentary lifestyle was the problem.

She was busy raising 5 kids (age 9+) as a single mother working graveyard shifts at the airport to make ends meet. Meals were served, laundry was done, us kids were making it to school on time, the house was cleaned – she was not sedentary, but he wouldn’t listen. Doc basically said “You’re fat. Lose weight.”

Years later she went to a different doctor. They did a quick blood check and what do you know it – she has Hypothyroidism.

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Female patient consulting doctor about health concerns Not me, but my wife and I was in the room.

She was seeking treatment for a neck injury that was causing debilitating headaches. The doctor told my wife point blank “I won’t treat you until you lose 40% of your body weight.” She was heavy at the time, but her weight was not a factor in this injury.

We got a second opinion rapidly.

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Doctor listening to frustrated woman in medical office 1991. Twenty year old me was at my follow up obgyn visit after having a miscarriage. Dr looks up at me from down there and says “ you’d be a pretty girl if you’d lose some weight “.

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Woman in heels sitting on bed holding her leg in discomfort Not a specific event, but for over a decade I’ve been told that my insanely itchy legs are psychosomatic. I’ve seen various doctors and had tests done and since nothing is coming back positive for anything, people assume I’m making it up. Sure, because I WANT to be digging holes in my skin and hurting myself because the constant itching keeps me up all night.

Finally saw a different GI doc the other week due to gallbladder concerns, and when I mentioned the itchy skin, he casually goes ‘Oh, that could be a symptom of (various intestinal issues we’re investigating). Not surprising at all, maybe some of these treatments will help.’

My response was, quote, ‘Are you kidding me? You’ve seen this?’ and we talked about it a bit more. I wanted to cry. Someone finally believes me!!

Edit: okay, wasn’t expecting anyone to also have the same thing!! So, I have gallbladder issues in that it’s basically unalive, but I’m not in pain, and I just found out last month because I had a severe chest pain attack that landed me in the ER. I’m not getting it removed yet but it doesn’t seem to function anymore, I don’t know if it’s the exact cause or not. The GI specialist I saw put me on a med that helps with bile salt absorption, because a lot my stomach problems could be due to malabsorpion. And seriously, I’m not even the full two weeks into the med cycle and my near-daily bathroom runs after every meal are GONE. I also don’t have issues with dairy, so I wonder if I’m not actually lactose sensitive but it was all gut biome stuff. I’m waiting to hear back from the GI on a long term solution but colestipol has saved me and I hope it’s a step in the right diagnostic direction!

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Stressed woman sitting alone at desk holding forehead in office I have frequent headaches and migraines. The doctor asked me if I work in front of a computer…I said yes….”well there you go that’s why you have headaches! Stop staring at the screen!!!” Like I have a choice? How am I supposed to work!!

At OBGYN I was diagnosed with PCOS/PMOS and the doctor told me I need to lose weight and eat basically like a rabbit. I was 125lbs 😩.

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Female patient undergoing gynecological exam by medical professional Female doctor scraping my uterine lining for a biopsy that offers no sedatives or pain relief. I was gagging from the pain and the intense feeling of my insides being scraped away made me nauseous. She told me to take deep breaths. When she was done, she said “wow, that was hell for you!”

????

Any woman who’s undergone a procedure whether it be an IUD removal or also an endometrial biopsy will understand this pain.

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Doctors reviewing patient files during discussion in medical setting I told him I had reoccurring throbbing pain near my groin for years and that sometimes it seemed to be triggered by certain foods. He said “well, stop eating those foods”.

He made no further attempts to figure out what was causing my pain and I continue to suffer today.

Edit: I want to thank everyone for your concern! I have seen many doctors since then and had ultrasounds. Nothing was wrong according to them. No further attempts were made to solve the problem.

I even went to the ER and they told me they would operate on me to see if it was my appendix but that even if it wasn’t, they would remove it anyway.

So, I’ve just learned to live with the pain.

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Doctor discussing medical information with female patient in hospital Diagnosed with cervical cancer. First meeting with oncologist who wanted to do an internal exam with the speculum. I mentioned I had anxiety and it was painful for me (I mean, it’s uncomfortable for all of us but the cancer made it especially worse for me). Without warning, he pretty aggressively grabbed my legs and pushed them to the side, saying “well, you better suck it up and get used to it, because you’ll be having a lot more”.

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Woman measuring thigh with tape measure focusing on body concerns Struggled my whole life with body / eating disorder issues. Turned to binge eating / laxatives in college and had my nutrition professor notice the signs and convince me to seek out my doctor at home. Was slightly overweight. Went in for the appointment and doctor (a man) looked at me and said “oh. You’re fine. When your mom said it was an eating disorder thing we thought you were going to come in looking like skin and bones”. Went on to struggle for 5 more years.

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Woman in hospital gown sitting in wheelchair looking distressed and worried #1 female Dr. refused to prescribe me HRT for perimenopausal symptoms that made me feel like a dumb angry zombie. Told me, “Just power through like a real woman. I did.” I told her to get lost before I walked out.

#2 saw male specialist for weird nerve pain in my hand. Completely ignores what I came in for and proceeds to wax poetic about his hot wheels collection.

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Woman with glasses crying alone in dimly lit room, showing distress What are you crying for? You wanted this.

Said to me by the anesthesiologist as I was being prepped for the d&c I needed because I’d had a miscarriage and not passed the remains. I absolutely did not want any of that.

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“You just need a man to take care of you.” – Psychiatrist

I was 41 and had been living on my own for 10 years.

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Went to get an STI check because I was starting a new relationship, and had asked my partner to do the same. The doctor was astonished that I was doing this proactively when I didn’t have any symptoms. He sighed and said “I guess this is just what ‘modern women’ are like”.

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My gynecologist was up literally inside me and started giving me weight loss tips and “suggestions.” I reminded her, furious, that I had gone into eating disorder recovery a little over a year ago. She said “being a little overweight is just as dangerous or more as being a little underweight.”

I was maybe a size 8 at that time? I had gained a decent amount of weight, sure, up from being a size 0/2 and way, way too thin for my frame.

I obviously never went back, wrote scathing reviews, and moved on, but her saying those things to me while I was so incredibly vulnerable both literally physically in that moment, and mentally/ emotionally while I was still figuring out how to navigate recovery- it really upset me. I also had a ton of trauma around gyno stuff as I’d been dealing with cervical cancer/ hpv things for over a decade at that point and was already incredibly anxious just being there.

It was horrible. She is horrible.

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ER nurse in my case. 1996. I was 22 years old, visiting my brother who lived in another state. Intense right quadrant pain sent me to the ER, and they needed an ultrasound right away so I had to be “filled up” and not allowed to drink the water. Received catheter on the spot (my first), and writhed in pain during insertion . ER nurse chided me, saying unless I’d birthed a child, I didn’t know pain. It wasn’t necessary a bad thing to say, but it was very unkind, and I was a frightened young adult. Turned out I had a large dermoid ovarian cyst, which I had surgically removed when I returned to my home state.

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I have strabismus (cross eye) and he told me, well, you’ll scare off all the boys looking like that.

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Had severe acne and was going through the process of getting on accutane.

Because I had a history of depression I was required to talk to a therapist.

During my intake the topic turned to my bf at the time and I told the therapist that he was very jealous and controlling. She told me “well once you clear up that acne then he will really have something to be jealous about” bro.

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Me – in approx 2002 suffering from an ED and a crippling anxiety disorder seeing my (male) GP at 24 because my heart palpitations were keeping me from sleeping and I was legit scared o was going to lose my life. My hair was falling out everywhere. I was 5’9” and somewhere between 110-115 when my normal weight was still a very lean 135.

“Wow. You look fantastic. Still single? You’re in NYC now, right? My brother is a photographer there and does very well for himself.”

He gave me his brother’s number and no referral for any of the issues I can in for, other than the advice to “take a few days off and get a massage to relax a bit.”.

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It was a female gynecologist, which makes it worse.

I was trying to explain to her how bad my period pains were, and how I’m bipolar. I wanted to go on birth control to try and regulate things.

She told me, “Well, what would your husband think? Don’t you want to have a baby?”

To her, I was just a baby maker and had no opinions. My body belonged to my supposed husband.

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Went into labor and delivery at 37 weeks for decreased fetal movement. This is specifically what you are told to do by any OB. The intern on shift that night said “maybe I needed some medication” because I was anxious.

2 weeks later he walked into my room to deliver my baby. I had him removed from my team.

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Had an endoscopy come back clean. Doc said: well maybe the pain is caused by emotions, as I see you are taking an anti-depressant.

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I was having outbursts of anxiety and depression. Doctor told me that I should have two babies (not just one, because then it would be depressed like me) to resolve it.

I was Vitamin B12 and D deficient. Vitamins solved the issue. I had to figure that out myself.

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Updated my after visit summary note with my male gyno. I had never had an issue until this.
“Was surprised and confused by her weight and proceeded to cry hysterically.”

Not how I remember it.

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My foot started hurting when I got pregnant. I was told it’s pregnancy and what did I expect. Legs hurt while pregnant.

I got diagnosed with stage 3 melanoma 7 months pregnant on my foot.

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I kept fainting from low blood sugar and the doctor told me I had a case of the “faints”. Passed out later at a concert and almost had to go to the hospital.

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Doctor asked my weight for dosage calculation and he looked at me and said “are you sure? You look like a much bigger girl”.

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Welp. It happened recently. I was getting my IUD removed and I am in what they would call a “geriatric” stage in life but still able to get pregnant. The doctor said to me that I am a bit late. Not impossible but it might be harder. That the ideal age to have a child is 16. Yes, Sixteen. The doctor was a woman, too.

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Doc said there was nothing wrong with my back, I was just sad cause I was fat. I was only about 6 mos postpartum, had a very manual labor military job. Turned it there were 2 discs exploded in my lower back. Awesome work.

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I don’t know about worse, but a lifetime of being brushed off because of my weight has me scared of thinking I’ll never get meaningful help. For reference, I had been morbidly obese since I was THREE. I reached my goal weight at 28 (I’m 32F now).

Even now, at my goal weight, written in my record by my weight management doctor, stating I am at clinical goal weight I still have doctors telling me I need to lose weight. They then immediately follow up with suggesting I see a weight management doctor.

After stating that I already do and tell them that this is my goal weight per my doctor’s own analysis and that she’s been working with me for 8 years they still suggest I should ‘keep going’ and ‘it’s good for my health to lose more’.

This was stated at my last physical actually, when all I needed was an ENT refferal…..

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I’m 8 weeks pregnant. Out of nowhere, I start having severe anxiety attacks, every 15 minutes. I’ve never had them before. I am having trouble breathing, my chest is tight, I’m crying uncontrollably. I then lose the ability to speak. I head to the ER. The male doctor looks at the notes taken at admission that my husband gave – exactly what I typed above. The doctor, in a real agitated manner, asked me, “was this a planned pregnancy?” I shook my head no. He let out a sigh, “here’s my advice…don’t get pregnant”. And gave me a shot of Ativan. I went home and an hour later, I had a miscarriage. Come to find out that the anxiety attacks were caused by the severe, sudden drop in hormones, from my body going through a miscarriage. What a jerk.

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Went into premature labor at 16, so yeah I was a kid. Got pregnant my first time! Anyway, he put a speculum inside me to see if my water had broken. I was crying and tense, because it is uncomfortable as many of you know. A midwife held my hand, when I was starting to get a bit more upset he said and I quote “you weren’t crying when he shoved it up inside of you, were ya” referring to how I got pregnant. I was stunned. Even as an immature teen, i knew there was no way that was okay. I told my mam, who was in the waiting area, she ran around the hospital looking for him. I told a lovely delivery nurse who was amazing!! I guess he got fired because he never appeared at the new maternity hospital that opened ( all maternity hospitals shut down and went to one).

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He told me I was to young for a hysterectomy and might decide I want more kids. I’m 48. I have 4 kids (16,16,25, 28) and 4 grandkids (7,6,2,2). I also have severe PCOS. I’m in the process of getting a second opinion.

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That it was all in my head. Turned out to be MS. I got an apology and it looked like he felt really bad about it, but it pissed me off so bad.

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Not said but on my first gyn appt at 16 the (female?!!) doctor put the salad tongs in me, opened them, and left the room. I started yelling after 1/2 hour and she rushed in and just clamped them shut real quick and left without removing them. Like less than 30 seconds. It pinched me real bad and i kept screaming until they came in and FINISHEd the whole thing. Without apologies.

The patriarchy would fall right down if women really weren’t as evil and patriarchal as men.

I hate doctors.

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“Your pain isn’t bad enough for it to be anything worth investigating.” As I’m crying on the exam table. Turned out to be endometriosis after I saw a doctor that wasn’t evil.

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When I told my GP I had been short of breath for 4+ months, started out hearing crackling sounds when I laid down at night, which progressed to where I coughed up a clear bubbly phlegm any time I tried to lay down and had to start sleeping upright.

“**Well you did gain 10 pounds since I saw you last year! You need to work on losing weight.**”

Two weeks later I got admitted to the ICU with congestive heart failure on my 24th birthday. That ten pounds was built up fluid on my chest because my heart wasn’t able to pump properly so more and more fluid just kept building up. I very nearly lost my life and still 4 years later struggle DAILY with everyday tasks because my heart is bad. I’ll have to have a heart transplant at some point in my life without a doubt. Got an ICD in my chest that’ll need replaced every 7-10 years. I’m going to be living with this for the rest of my life. And my life expectancy has decreased significantly.

I try to have a little grace and say maybe my GP missed it because who expects a perfectly healthy 23 year old to get heart failure? But like. Honestly. When you google “crackling sounds when I breathe” like the second thing it gives you is heart failure. The first is pneumonia. My GP told me to eat less.

Also the same guy who refused to send me for a scan when I had a kidney stone that wouldn’t pass because he thought I “might want kids someday and the scans could hurt my fertility”.

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I had an early miscarriage (8wks) and the OB said it wasn’t anything to be upset about because most women wouldn’t have even known they were pregnant yet. He was such a jerk.

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Asked for information about birth control. Told me he doesn’t believe in birth control and that I should measure my temperature every morning. If my temperature is higher, then I should know I’m ovulating…Great, thanks Doc….

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I went to the ER because I was bleeding heavily.. I’m talkin going through a tampon and pad every half hour.. I went alone thinking I’d be fine. The doctor refused to listen to me and said that at my age (I was about 23 or 24 at the time), I should know what a heavy cycle is. He discharged me and I continued to bleed. I went to another ER and come to find out that I was actively miscarrying.

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You have low positive hep c

After I had an abortion it turned out the dr he was infecting the girls with hep c during the procedure, I was 16.

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I was told to ‘stop whining’ while I was giving birth for the first time with zero pain meds, she also didn’t numb me while she stitched me up AND gave me a husband stitch. That’s Catholic hospitals for you though.

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She laughed in my face when I asked if I could be having a recurrence of the cervical cancer I once had. Spoiler alert: it was back. I had to leave her care to find out.

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Wasn’t so much what he *said,* but when he did some testing on me and it was negative, i asked him if i could possibly have a particular disorder I’d recently learned about. he literally just laughed in my face, then moved on like I’d said nothing, and gave me a lecture about not using screens or eating anything for at least 4 hours before bed, even if that meant i couldn’t do my homework (i was in high school at the time), and sent me on my way.

anyway, I’m now diagnosed with that thing i thought i had and doing much better thanks to treatment, but i had to drop out of school and lose the first half of my 20s to struggling to even work part time jobs before i got there.

honorable mention to the (FEMALE!!) OBGYN who told me i wasn’t actually experiencing cramps when not menstruating, and that the pain was in fact my IBS, and I just couldn’t tell the difference bc they’re both in my belly.

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My male ob told me my weight gain during pregnancy wasn’t all baby. And even when I measured 46 he wouldn’t induce. I ended up having a 12 lb 9 oz baby and lost 33 pounds in the hospital. When I next saw him I told him it was all baby.

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Have you asked your husbands permission to get an IUD? It was a female doctor too.

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“Why is it so important to you to get a PCOS diagnosis? You aren’t trying to have kids, and there’s no treatment anyway.”

SPOILER ALERT there is treatment, it doesn’t only impact your fertility, and it was ruining my life.

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“ oh you’re here for pimples! No, you’re here for bronchitis. Tell you what I’ll give you small antibiotic after you finish it’ll make your skin look beautiful.”.

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Years ago an older male gynecologist suggested I should start having babies because his wife is spending too much on his credit cards. He said the laughingly.

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My female gyno got mad at me for nearly vomiting, crying out in pain and feeling too faint to leave on my own after IUD insertion. She humphed that she would have to use one of her other rooms while I recovered.

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Friday Favourites – PLAYWORKEATREPEAT

Hi friends! I hope you’re all having a lovely day or night. I’m a little (a lot!) late getting this post ready for the link-up, but here I am with a few quick favourites from the last few weeks.

1

I went back to work this week after the school holidays without the usual back-to-work scaries. Yay! I’m a hundred percent certain it’s because it’s spring and, although we’re still experiencing all four seasons in a week, sometimes even in a day, it’s all OK. It’s my favourite time of year! We’re on the countdown to summer, the end of the preschool year and all the fun things that come with the warmer months. Yep, I really love spring!

2

On the first weekend of the school holidays, we went for a walk from Oatley to Como across the Como Bridge. It was a very hot spring day, but we really enjoyed the walk. When we got to the bridge, my husband wanted to take a photo. I told him, “Take it from far away. I look better from a distance.” Haha! He understood the assignment.

By the time we got to the other side, we were hungry! We stopped at Como Waterfront Cafe for burgers, and the watermelon juice was perfect on such a hot day.

3

I have a tradition of visiting Bunnings on the first weekend of September to celebrate the beginning of spring and buy some colourful flowering plants for the front garden.

We’ve had a mix of very rainy and sunny days, so a few weeks later, the garden is looking like this.

Nice, hey?

4

Hooray! Almost all the cousins could make it to Cousin Connect. It’s getting trickier to get everyone together with so much going on in everyone’s lives, from social events and dancing comps to travelling and everything in between.

We had a wobbly couple of months recently when, for the first time in five years, we missed our catch-ups. But it’s a special tradition, and one we never want to let slide.

It was such a fun night, with lots of food, plenty of catching up, and so many stories to share. We finished with a game called Imposter, which had us all in stitches!

5

My younger son turned 22 and requested to go to a vegan burger place in Newtown for dinner. Yep, he’s on his vegan journey and exploring all sorts of new foods.

Instead of a birthday cake, he asked for vegan doughnuts from a Dulwich Hill bakery.

Everything tasted great, and I think if I hadn’t known it was vegan, I might never have guessed. Well, maybe the burger patty. It didn’t really taste meaty. It was more lentil-y.

6

We had a couple of really lovely staycations, one in the city at The Rocks and the other in Bowral. I’ll share the recaps next week!

7

Our lovely neighbour of more than 20 years recently moved into a care home, and we miss her. We surprised her with a visit, and it was so good to see her! I miss her little visits and her knocking on our door. We were always happy to lend her a helping hand, and sometimes she’d surprise us with home-cooked snacks or beautiful flower arrangements. Those were lovely days, and I wish things didn’t have to change.

And that’s a wrap for this week! Thanks so much for stopping by, and I hope you all have a lovely weekend. See you next time!

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43 Women Get Brutally Honest About The Microaggressions That Men Fling Their Way Too Often

Women are not angry. Women are just tired. There is a meaningful difference, and if you need that explained, you might want to read this article twice. Every day, without fail, without exception, and without anyone apparently being able to stop it, women navigate an obstacle course of small and absolutely exhausting interactions that individually seem minor and collectively make you want to move to a remote island with good Wi-Fi and a strict no-mansplaining policy.

Not the big stuff, although that too. The stuff that happens so regularly that women have developed a whole facial expression for it that men have never correctly identified. On a Thread, a user asked women to list the microaggressions they field way too often, and the answers were so universally recognized by every woman who read it that it could have gone on indefinitely. These are the highlights, although “highlights” is doing a lot of work as a word here.

“World Cup” vs “Women’s World Cup”. “Basketball” vs “ Women’s Basketball”.
“Soccer” vs. “Women”s Soccer”.

Asking women what they use for birth control, but not asking men. Medical records not even having a place to document what men do for their part in contraception. It doesn’t even occur to people that men can (and should) play a role in pregnancy prevention.

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Woman in martial arts uniform showing confidence addressing microaggressions women experience Using variations of “like a girl” to insult other men.

I’m a martial arts instructor. Had a guy in class recently struggling with a drill and taking out his frustrations on another dude by telling him he hit “like a little girl”.

I told him in no uncertain terms that was unacceptable. Then I stepped in to work with him and show him how hard a girl hits. He left class bruised but wiser, and most importantly quieter.

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Microaggressions are exactly what they sound like, micro. Not the big, obvious stuff that everyone can agree is a problem, but the small, everyday moments that individually seem almost too minor to mention and collectively make you feel like you are losing your mind. The term was coined by psychiatrist Chester Pierce in the 1970s and later expanded by psychologist Derald Wing Sue, who defined them as the commonplace verbal and behavioral indignities that communicate something negative, whether the person delivering them meant to or not.

That last part is the one that tends to derail every conversation about this topic, because intention and impact are not the same thing, and the woman who just got asked if she is sure she understands how the software works does not feel better about it because the guy asking probably meant well. The message landed all the same, and the damage is the same regardless.

Man smiling and talking outdoors with woman about microaggressions Referring to everything a woman does as “little.” “Have fun with your little book club,” “how’s your little project going?” “Go have your little girl’s night.” Excuse me sir I am not Stuart Little please stop infantilizing everything I do.

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Mansplaining has been happening for centuries, but it got its name in 2008 when Rebecca Solnit wrote an essay called ‘Men Explain Things to Me’, describing the experience of a man at a party confidently explaining her own book to her without knowing she had written it. The essay went viral because every woman who read it immediately thought of seventeen personal examples.

Research confirmed what women already knew from lived experience: a 2014 study from George Washington University found that men interrupted women 33% more in mixed-gender conversations and were more likely to interrupt women than women were to interrupt men. The interruption is rarely aggressive but it is relentless, and that is the most exhausting part.

The professional credibility gap is another common issue that a Yale study gave some validity to. They sent identical CVs to faculty across American universities with one variable: the name at the top. The female-named applications were rated as less competent, less hireable, and deserving of a lower starting salary than the male-named ones.

Same CV. Different name. Different outcome. Both male and female faculty rated them this way, which might be the worst part of it all. Women in professional settings who feel like they are constantly having to prove something their male colleagues are simply assumed to have are not imagining it. Yale confirmed it.

Arlie Hochschild coined the term ’emotional labour’ in 1983 to describe the work of managing your feelings as part of a job, originally applied to flight attendants trained to stay pleasant no matter what was happening around them. The concept has since expanded to cover something women have been doing for free in every area of their lives for way longer.

In professional settings, it looks like softening bad news so nobody feels bad, mediating conflicts nobody asked you to mediate, and remembering every colleague’s birthday while also doing your actual job. At home it looks like being the person who notices when the toilet paper is running low, tracks the family calendar, and senses that something is wrong before anyone has said a word. It is work. It just does not get called that, which is rather convenient for everyone who benefits from it.

When you look at the numbers, it is simply too alarming to mansplain away. According to the McKinsey Women in the Workplace Report, 55% of women report experiencing at least one competence-based microaggression at work, and research by the Integrating Women Leaders Foundation puts the broader figure at 65% experiencing subtle or indirect discrimination on the job, making women up to three times more likely to encounter it than men.

In male-dominated or highly competitive fields, those numbers climb to between 72% and 85%, which at that point makes it an integrated part of the job description. It’s just not one you will see openly advertised n LinkedIn.

Dentist showing dental x-ray to father and daughter about microaggressions women experience When dads bring their kids to the doctor’s office and we ask for THEIR OWN CHILDREN’S medical history, they go, “Oh, I never handle that. That’s their mom’s area.” Then they proceed to ask their own kids if they have any allergies or call MOM to ask. ONE TIME, I HAD A 7-YEAR-OLD WHO KNEW MORE ABOUT HER OLDER SISTER’S MEDICAL HISTORY THAN HER OWN FATHER DID. LET THAT SINK IN.

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And although this kind of behavior can be seen in every industry, women in medicine are particularly targeted. Among female resident and attending physicians, 84.6% reported experiencing gender-based microaggressions, and 72% of women applying for residency programs reported encountering them during interviews, compared to 30% of men going through the exact same process.

These are not entry-level industries full of people still figuring out professional norms. These are highly trained specialists in rooms full of other highly trained specialists, and it is still happening at that rate, which tells you something about how little the level of the room changes the dynamic.

For women with multiple marginalized identities, the odds are probably the worst. Black and Asian women are seven times more likely to be confused with another person of the same race or ethnicity than White women. 42% of Black women report having to provide more evidence of competence than their colleagues, compared to 31% of women overall and 16% of men.

But if you are a lady reading this, none of this is new information to you. Every woman reading this thread nodded along with the exhausted recognition of someone who has been absorbing these moments for years and largely keeping it to herself because the alternative is being told she is overreacting.

It is real and significantly worse if you are also navigating race or any other marginalized identity on top of gender. But ladies have been cataloging it all along, and for now we are laughing together because sometimes that is the only plausible response to something you cannot fix before lunch.

What microaggression are you faced with way too often? Lets find some solidarity in the comments!

At a new job, in a meeting with my new direct reports. Business discussed. Confused graces among all the men, who took notes?

They all turn to me and point out that I had been taking notes and that I could share. I said, “No. Because I’m the only woman in the room taking personal notes. I will not be sharing. Assign a note taker in advance.” Slammed my book shut and strutted out of the room.

2 hours later, my boss approaches and said, “so glad you’re here.”

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I hate it when a man says “Looks like it’s someone’s time of the month”.

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Refusing to consume film, TV, books, music, theater or art that centers women and girls, and claiming that it “just doesn’t interest me.”

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Couple chatting and smiling holding ice cream about microaggressions women encounter I’m a veterinarian, I have a doctorate in Veterinary Medicine. When I was dating and men would ask me what I did for work, I would say I’m a veterinarian. More then once the guy would jump in and say “you mean a vet tech?” because they couldn’t mentally reconcile a women who is a doctor.

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My friend is a well-respected defense attorney. Her client was refusing to take her very sound legal advice. She fought with him for days.

Finally, she sent her male partner in. The client agreed immediately.

He just had to hear it from a man.

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Honestly it’s the interrupting. Constant. I’d love to simply finish a sentence.

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I’m a wedding photographer. My second shooter is a man.
9/10 times the DJ will go to him about timeline questions, changes, any communication basically. It drives me nuts.

“Females”.

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Expecting her to remember everything: Appointments, school forms, birthdays, groceries, and what everybody needs.

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A conversation with a man I know who never travels anywhere – Me: “I’m so excited to go to the Tongass National Forest” Him: “aren’t you going to Alaska?” Me: “yes..?” Him: “ there’s no rainforests there, it’s Alaska” Me: “so, fun fact. A forest just needs a lot of rain to be a rainforest, it doesn’t have to be hot.” He stares at me, then walks away. Later I find him googling it.

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When men say my name to me in the third person, “How is Amy doing today?”

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62 Random Yet Relatable Memes That Help You Feel Like We’re In This Together


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66 People Show Their Most Unusual Body Features And Give Everyone A New Look At Human Anatomy


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In a typical PBN setup, the owner acquires expired or aged domains that already have existing authority, backlinks, and history. These domains are rebuilt with new content and hosted separately, often using different IP addresses, hosting providers, themes, and ownership details to make them appear unrelated. Within the content published on these sites, links are strategically placed that point to the main website the owner wants to rank higher. By doing this, the owner attempts to pass link equity (also known as “link juice”) from the PBN sites to the target website.

The purpose of a PBN is to give the impression that the target website is naturally earning links from multiple independent sources. If done effectively, this can temporarily improve keyword rankings, increase organic visibility, and drive more traffic from search results.

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43 Eye-Opening Posts About How Women Are Still Fighting To Be Viewed As People

Many women face patriarchy every day. Time and age have not squashed this persistent issue. It is one of history’s oldest battles, fought by women for centuries. And unfortunately, we are still fighting it.

Chauvinistic men still believe they are superior and can treat us however they want. Then they whine when women clap back and unleash their rage. But some women have mastered the brilliant job of shutting down entitled men. 

There is a Facebook community that collects brutal posts where women push back against patriarchy. Some comments drip with sarcasm, while others will make you wish you saw the misogynistic man’s face when he read them. Scroll down to check them out!

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The world often boasts about the technological progress that we have made. But when there are still regressive practices like patriarchy, how can we call ourselves a progressive society? Hate crimes, violence, inappropriate behaviors, prejudice, stereotyping, misogyny, discrimination-I could go on and on about the problems that women face regularly. 

Despite all this, some men think that we don’t need feminism. In reality, I doubt whether they even know that feminism means gender equality. As simple as that. Only entitled people can be so blissfully ignorant and complain that “feminism is destroying the world for men.”

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The Gender Social Norms Index, released by the United Nations Development Programme (UNDP), measures how social beliefs obstruct gender equality in areas like politics, work, and education. It includes data from 75 countries and covers over 80% of the world’s population.

This analysis reveals that, despite decades of progress trying to close the gender equality gap, close to 90% of men and women hold some bias against women. About half of men and women worldwide believe men make better political leaders. Over 40% feel that men make better business executives and that men have more right to a job when jobs are scarce. 28% think it is justified for a man to be violent towards his wife.  

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Achim Steiner, administrator of UNDP, stated that “the work that has been so effective in ensuring an end to gaps in health or education must now evolve to address something far more challenging: a deeply ingrained bias – among both men and women – against genuine equality. Current policies, while well-intentioned, can only take us so far.” 

Well, it seems that this very bias against women needs to be addressed, and something needs to be done about it. I mean, it’s really unfair that half of the world’s population suffers just because they were born a woman. And the effects this discrimination has can be long-lasting.

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What’s more shocking is that this issue doesn’t seem to have an end. Not when incel culture is on the rise, and it has fuelled more hate crimes against women. A senior law enforcement officer described incel as an “emerging risk,” making up 1% of all referrals to the anti-extremism scheme in the year to March 2022 (77 cases), driven by concerns that mainly young men were falling for its message. 

The number might have even gone up since then, and it’s really concerning for women. I mean, we hear about so many cases where men act violently when they are rejected, which raises the serious question about women’s safety.

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While many issues plague women’s lives, it’s harrowing to think that in some countries women still have to fight for basic rights. Also, let’s not forget that each of these issues takes a different toll on women’s well-being. For instance, a large study analyzing over 7,800 brain scans across 29 countries found that societal gender imbalances physically change women’s brains. 

It showed that women living in countries with higher gender inequality had thinner cortical thickness in brain regions associated with emotional control, resilience and stress-related disorders such as depression and post-traumatic stress disorder. Researchers claim that when women experience inequality, it “leaves a scar on their brains.” 

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As if women weren’t already facing discrimination in real life, there is now an intense rise in online misogyny. According to a report, 58% of girls and young women (aged 15-25) across 31 countries had faced online harassment. The report surveyed more than 14,000 girls and young women worldwide. 

Of those, 50% said they face more online harassment than street harassment. About 1 in 4 girls who had been harassed online felt physically unsafe. Despite such glaring and unsettling numbers, women get portrayed as the villain when they stand up against patriarchy or misogynistic men.

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So why is it that men feel threatened by feminism? Research highlights that when men strongly identify with their traditional roles, they may experience an identity threat when their roles are challenged. This can trigger defensive behavior that may lead to hypermasculine actions. 

This defense mechanism is called “reaction formation, where individuals respond to identity threats by adopting exaggerated or showy behaviors and attitudes that are the opposite of their true feelings.”

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However, I think that women have had enough of such entitled men ruining their lives. This list proves that they have mastered the art of standing up for themselves. Which one of these made you laugh the hardest? Which one made you think, “Oh wait, I need to quote this once,” and had you jotting it down somewhere? Let us know in the comments! Also, if you enjoyed scrolling through this one, you might want to check out these feminist posts that called out patriarchy.

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PakarPBN

A Private Blog Network (PBN) is a collection of websites that are controlled by a single individual or organization and used primarily to build backlinks to a “money site” in order to influence its ranking in search engines such as Google. The core idea behind a PBN is based on the importance of backlinks in Google’s ranking algorithm. Since Google views backlinks as signals of authority and trust, some website owners attempt to artificially create these signals through a controlled network of sites.

In a typical PBN setup, the owner acquires expired or aged domains that already have existing authority, backlinks, and history. These domains are rebuilt with new content and hosted separately, often using different IP addresses, hosting providers, themes, and ownership details to make them appear unrelated. Within the content published on these sites, links are strategically placed that point to the main website the owner wants to rank higher. By doing this, the owner attempts to pass link equity (also known as “link juice”) from the PBN sites to the target website.

The purpose of a PBN is to give the impression that the target website is naturally earning links from multiple independent sources. If done effectively, this can temporarily improve keyword rankings, increase organic visibility, and drive more traffic from search results.

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