You order a gift. You pay for it. You expect it to arrive safely. But you aren’t really in charge of the delivery. And when it’s the holidays, the stakes are high.

A woman from the United Kingdom said her Christmas present of over £2,000 ($2,700) was thrown at her doorstep by a courier. Her ring camera recorded the incident on video, so she thought her refund request would be straightforward.

But the rude customer service was having none of it and refused to help.

Before Christmas, delivery drivers are like Santa’s busy helpers

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But this woman says hers acted more like the Grinch

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Woman claims Christmas gift got shattered by delivery driver and shares footage exposing the incident and driver’s attitude.

The customer support team sided with the driver and refused to help her

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But after the woman uploaded a video of the incident to social media, the company suddenly changed its mind and sent in a representative

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It’s unclear how the situation ended, as the video now only circulates on repost pages

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Celebrity chef Gordon Ramsay didn’t hold back at his daughter’s wedding to Olympian swimmer Adam Peaty, taking a jab at the latter’s parents amid an ongoing family feud.

On Saturday, December 27, 25-year-old Holly Ramsay tied the knot with 31-year-old Peaty in a lavish ceremony at Bath Abbey.

However, most of Adam’s family was uninvited from the nuptials amid a bitter family fallout, prompting one of his aunts to send him a scathing text just moments before the ceremony.

“Gordon Ramsey’s like a spoilt man-child. Petulant, arrogant and immature. He’ll dominate that marriage,” wrote one social media user.

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Gordon Ramsay made a brutal dig at Adam Peaty’s family during his daughter’s wedding speech, as they were reportedly banned from the ceremony

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During his father-of-the-bride speech, the 59-year-old Michelin-starred chef began by commenting on how beautiful his daughter looked in her bridal attire and called his new son-in-law “a lucky man.”

Referencing his wife, Tana Ramsay, Gordon told Adam, “Look at Tana, and that’s what you have to look forward to.”

According to a report by The Sun, Gordon added that his wife “will be a good mum to them both.”

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The television personality then appeared to make a subtle dig at the absence of Peaty’s family, looking at his daughter and saying, “Shame you don’t have the same.”

The Peaty family feud came to light just days before the couple’s wedding.

According to multiple reports, the falling out between Adam and his parents began during preparations for the couple’s engagement party in December last year.

The Olympian swimmer’s aunt, Louise Williams, reportedly texted him, “Shame on you both,” just moments before the wedding took place

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At the time, his mother, Caroline Peaty, was said to be upset that some extended family members were not invited and was also allegedly uncomfortable with the presence of a camera crew filming the event for Ramsay’s docuseries.

Tensions escalated further last month when Caroline was not invited to Holly’s bachelorette party, despite Holly’s mother, sisters, and family friends, including Victoria Beckham, being in attendance.

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Adam’s aunt, Louise Williams, publicly criticized Holly at the time, calling her “divisive and hurtful” for excluding her mother-in-law.

A source close to the family recently told The Sun, “Frankly, it’s disgusting that [the wedding] went ahead without Adam reaching out to his mum and dad beforehand.”

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Adam’s father, Mark, was allegedly invited to the wedding but was asked to sit at the back of the church with the plus-ones, an arrangement the source described as “awful.” Mark ultimately declined to attend.

The outlet also reported that the Olympian’s aunt texted him moments before he said “I do,” but he never read the message because he had blocked family members.

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Adam reportedly had a falling out with his entire family due to a number of factors, most notably after Holly allegedly snubbed her mother-in-law from her bachelorette party

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The text from his aunt reportedly read, “I hope you never suffer the depth of pain you have put your mother through and despite it all she loves you still.”

“Shame on you both. Shame. Remember on this, your happiest day, and on each anniversary of your happiest day, that you hurt your mum so deeply her soul screams.”

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Moreover, the newly married groom allegedly did not mention his family or parents during his reception speech, instead praising his swim coach, Mel Marshall.

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He expressed gratitude to Mel for being his “everything” and for “grounding and inspiring” him.

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Adam also emotionally referred to his coach as being “like a mum” due to her unwavering support.

Addressing Gordon’s cryptic remarks at the ceremony, an insider close to Adam’s family told the outlet in a recent interview, “This was the Ramsays’ plan all along. They wanted Adam’s family gone, and they have succeeded.”

The groom’s sister, Bethany Peaty, was the only family member who attended her brother’s wedding, despite the ongoing family feud

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“You’d think that as parents, Gordon and Tana would have a bit more compassion towards Caroline, Mark and the family.”

They continued, “Caroline did everything and more to help Adam. She and Mark sacrificed a lot to get him where he is. Adam ought to be ashamed of himself for going ahead with the wedding without them after everything they did to support him.

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The insider also addressed Adam’s sister Bethany Peaty, who was the only one attending the nuptials, saying her actions had “betrayed her mum.”

The source alleged, “This isn’t the Bethany we all know, she’s changed her appearance and personality to fit in with the Ramsays’ celebrity lifestyle.”

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Additionally, the family source claimed that Adam disinvited his great-aunt Janet and her husband, Eddie, just days before the wedding, despite the couple having already booked accommodation and purchased outfits for the ceremony.

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The source described the entire situation as “completely unacceptable.”

“He should be ashamed they were there when he was building his career now they are no use to him and Ramsey is nothing but a bully,” wrote one netizen

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Aunts and uncles are often like bonus parents in a child’s life. They’re the fun ones, the safe ones, the people who step in with extra love, guidance, and support when it’s needed most. Sometimes, those bonds grow even stronger than anyone expects.

For one woman, that bond with her nephew deepened in a life-changing way when he began calling her “mom.” She shared how her brother and sister-in-law slowly pushed the boy aside after having children of their own, treating him like an outsider. His grades slipped, his behavior changed, and he began spiraling. Seeing this, she and her husband took him in, gave him stability, care, and unconditional love. Years later, when the biological mother discovered the boy viewed his aunt as his real parent, family tensions exploded. Keep reading to see how it all unfolded.

It’s always comforting to have relatives you can rely on—people who show up, offer support, and genuinely care when you need them most

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A woman shared how she essentially raised her nephew after his parents neglected him and failed to provide the care and attention he needed

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Kids can feel deeply neglected when parents are emotionally unavailable or consistently absent from their lives

Kids naturally look up to their parents for almost everything. From learning how to ride a bike to figuring out right from wrong, mom and dad are often a child’s first teachers, role models, and safe place. The parent-child bond plays a huge role in shaping confidence, emotional security, and self-worth. When children feel supported and loved, they’re more likely to thrive both emotionally and mentally. That relationship lays the foundation for how they see themselves and the world.

Things become deeply painful when parents begin neglecting a child’s emotional or physical needs. An abandoned child is not always one who is physically left behind, but often one whose parents stop showing up emotionally. It happens when caregivers no longer provide attention, care, or basic support for growth and development. This kind of neglect can quietly damage a child’s sense of safety. Over time, it can leave lasting emotional scars that are hard to heal.

The American Psychological Association explains child neglect as the consistent lack of attention, care, or affection that a child needs to grow normally. This includes emotional warmth, physical care, and encouragement. Neglect often stems from indifference, lack of awareness, or personal struggles faced by caregivers. Even when unintentional, the effects can be serious and long-lasting. Children may internalize the neglect and believe they are unworthy of love or care.

Studies show that children and teens who experience parental rejection often carry heavy emotional guilt. The more rejected a child feels, the stronger those feelings of guilt can become. Many start blaming themselves for the lack of love or attention they receive. Research suggests that children with anxious attachment styles or feelings of non-acceptance are especially vulnerable. This can lead to long-term issues with trust, self-esteem, and emotional regulation.

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It’s important to provide children with a warm, supportive, and welcoming environment where they feel safe, valued, and heard

That’s why it’s incredibly important for nearby adults—relatives, teachers, or guardians—to step in with compassion. Children who feel abandoned need consistent support, patience, and understanding. Giving them time, space, and opportunities to talk helps them process their feelings safely. Listening without judgment can make a world of difference. Sometimes, just knowing someone cares is enough to begin healing.

When supporting a child in this situation, it’s important not to immediately correct their feelings about their parents. Telling them how they “should” feel can shut them down emotionally. Their experiences and emotions are real to them, even if complicated. Instead, allow them to express what they feel freely. Validation helps build trust and emotional safety.

Making a child feel genuinely welcomed is another powerful step. Simple gestures like including them in daily routines, family meals, or conversations can help them feel they belong. Feeling accepted can slowly replace feelings of rejection. A welcoming environment gives children a sense of stability they may have been missing. It reminds them they are wanted and valued.

Positive praise can go a long way in rebuilding a child’s confidence. Acknowledging their efforts, strengths, and small wins helps them feel seen. Encouragement doesn’t have to be grand, sometimes a kind word or reassurance is enough. Over time, positive reinforcement helps reshape how they see themselves. It teaches them that they are worthy of love, respect, and care.

Many people praised the woman for her kindness, saying there was nothing wrong with the boy calling her “mom” after everything she had done for him

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There have never been as many fake images online as there are currently. Experts warn people that “AI slop” is only going to become a bigger problem in the coming years. Yet, sources suggest that there are already more than 15 billion AI-generated images online.

It’s not surprising, then, that people online are starting to doubt the authenticity of images. It can make picking your next travel destination a bit tricky. This summer, an elderly couple were scammed with an AI-generated video of the non-existent cable car ride in Malaysia, Kuak Skyride.

But some destinations may look or sound too good to be true, yet are 100% real. In one thread online, folks have been sharing the most beautiful places in their homelands that people often mistake for AI slop. When one netizen asked, “What place in your country could be mistaken for having been created by AI, even though it really exists?” locals had many answers.

From the Giant’s Causeway in Ireland to the perfectly shaped city of Neuf-Brisach in France, see which places around the world might be so beautiful that some folks mistake them for a scam.

Living in an apartment building means you are never completely alone — thin walls, shared corridors, and facing windows can turn a normal day into an unexpected encounter with your neighbor.

But not everyone is a full-time busybody like Aunt Petunia from the Harry Potter series, craning their necks to spy from their windows. Sometimes you just can’t help but overhear — or get a little curious about — whatever mischief your next-door neighbor is up to.

It also makes living in a city more interesting, where communication and connections are few and far between.

A reddit user recently asked people who live in apartment buildings “What’s the most unexpected thing you’ve accidentally seen through a neighbor’s window?”

Some of the responses are odd while others are downright hilarious. But they all remind us why living in an apartment is never boring.

In a perfect world, we would all be able to put our lives on pause during the holiday season. You wouldn’t have to work or worry about issues in your personal life. No one would become ill, and unexpected issues would hold off until after New Year’s Day. 

But unfortunately, life doesn’t care if it’s about to be Christmas or your birthday or your anniversary. One woman’s life was recently turned upside down when her husband admitted that he had been having an affair. And to make matters worse, he revealed that he may have gotten their son’s ex-girlfriend pregnant. Below, you’ll find all the details that the mother shared on Reddit, as well as some of the replies invested readers left. 

This woman’s husband revealed that he had been having an affair for months

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Now, she’s wondering what the best move is for her family and marriage

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About 20% of men will cheat on their spouse at some point

Nobody ever expects their marriage to end in infidelity. When you tie the knot and say your vows, you commit to spending the rest of your life with the person you love. Unless, that is, they decide to throw it all away for someone else. Unfortunately, cheating is one of the most common reasons why marriages fall apart.

And according to psychologist Briony Leo, “Research tells us that, on average, around 20 percent of men are unfaithful to their spouse, as compared to 13 percent of women.” However, she notes that these numbers only include self-reports, so it’s possible that even more people are cheating and just keeping it to themselves.

Research from the Institute for Family Studies also found that men become even more likely to cheat in their fifties, sixties, and seventies. However, not every marriage is incapable of surviving infidelity. In fact, 53% of relationships where at least one spouse has cheated are still intact.

That doesn’t mean that it’s easy to work through those issues. And of course, things can become much more complicated when there’s a baby involved. But it’s not unheard of for affairs to lead to new life. 

One study published in Current Biology estimates that, over the past 500 years, about 1% of the European population was born as a result of an extramarital affair. Meanwhile, in Australia, research has found that about 10% of children may have been conceived during an affair. 

Once a person has learned that their spouse got another woman pregnant, it can be extremely difficult to give the marriage another try. Richard Nicastro, PhD, notes on his site that infidelity trauma can lead to a wide range of emotions, including rage, disbelief, confusion, insecurity, anxiety, and deep sadness.

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It’s natural to feel disgust for your partner after finding out that they’ve cheated

Navigating all of these feelings while trying to make decisions about the future of your marriage can be overwhelming. And as the author of this story noted, it’s common for those who have been cheated on to feel disgust towards their partner. 

“This kind of disgust doesn’t just make us turn away—it upends our sense of reality, forcing us to question the truths we once took for granted,” Dr. Nicastro explains. “This is the cruel nature of betrayal. It doesn’t just break your heart—it can prompt the same survival instinct that disgust was designed for, turning someone you once longed for into someone you can’t stand to be near.”

It’s natural for the mother in this story to want to keep things cordial and as “normal” as possible for her children, at least until the holidays are over. But as many commenters pointed out, she owes her son the truth.

PsychCentral warns that keeping secrets from kids can cause suspicion and resentment. It might also create a false sense of reality, which will be shattered when the truth inevitably comes out. 

Just because it’s not easy to be honest with your children doesn’t mean that it’s not worth it. Especially when they’re old enough to notice changes in their parents’ behavior, kids will start creating their own stories if they’re not given the full picture.

We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation in the comments below, pandas. How would you react if you were in this mother’s shoes? Then, if you’re interested in checking out another Bored Panda article discussing similar family drama, look no further than right here. 

Later, the author responded to several commenters and provided some more context

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Readers shared sympathy for the mother, and many encouraged her to be honest with her son and file for divorce

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